Tantra Massage Training for Couples
Learn the complete Tantra Massage ritual together, taught privately to just the two of you. Fifteen hours of personal teaching, at your pace, in a confidential setting in Stroud, Gloucestershire.
At a glance
- Format
- Private, one couple only
- Length
- 15 hours, typically 5 × 3-hour sessions
- Price
- £1,800 per couple, all teaching and materials included
- Deposit
- £350 (non-refundable). Balance due before the first session or in instalments by arrangement
- Where
- Stroud, Gloucestershire
- Teacher
- Wesley Tan BOst BSc
Why learn together
Most couples were never taught how to touch each other. They learned from habit, film, or guesswork, and over time touch drifts towards routine or towards sex as the only destination.
This training gives you something different: a complete ritual of conscious, full-body touch that you both learn to give and to receive. It slows things down. It takes the pressure of performance off. And it gives you a shared practice you can come back to for years.
What you’ll learn
- The complete Tantra Massage ritual, step by step, from opening to closing
- Full-body massage techniques and how to sequence them
- Yoni and lingam massage, as part of the complete ritual
- How to give: pace, presence and attention rather than technique for its own sake
- How to receive: letting go of the need to respond or perform
- How to talk about what you want, and what you don’t, before, during and after
- Breath and awareness practices to bring you both into the room
How the training works
Training runs over around five sessions of three hours each, scheduled with you. Each session builds on the last. There’s demonstration, guided practice with each other, and time for discussion, reflection and integration. The pace is set by the two of you, not by a syllabus.
Everything is confidential, ethical and boundaried. You practise only with each other.
Who it’s for
- Couples who want to deepen intimacy and connection without a group setting
- Couples who’ve found intimacy has become routine, pressured or distant
- Couples who’d like a workshop experience but would rather learn privately
- Couples in any relationship structure
This is teaching, not therapy. If you’d rather focus on communication, trust or specific difficulties than learn the ritual, intimacy coaching for couples may suit you better.
What’s included
- 15 hours of private teaching
- All teaching materials
- Personalised pace and progression
- Discussion, integration and reflection throughout
Investment
£1,800 per couple. £350 non-refundable deposit to book. Balance due before the first session, or in instalments by arrangement.
Enquire about trainingPrefer to learn in a group?
The 4-day Tantra Massage Training workshop teaches the same complete ritual in a small group of singles and couples. Couples can stay together throughout or explore working with others. It’s your choice.
Tantra massage training workshops →Couples training FAQ
Do we need any experience?
No. We start from the beginning.
Will anyone else be there?
No. It’s just the two of you and Wesley.
Is it sexual?
No. The ritual includes intimate touch, but the focus is presence and connection, not sex or performance.
What if one of us is more nervous than the other?
That’s common, and the pace adapts to it. Nothing happens without both of you agreeing.
Do we need to be undressed?
Parts of the practice involve undressing, with coverings. Everything is agreed in advance and can change at any time.
Can we spread the sessions out?
Yes. The schedule is agreed with you.
Can we pay in instalments?
Yes. The balance can be paid in instalments by arrangement after the £350 deposit.
Is this therapy or counselling?
No. It’s practical teaching. If you’re working through specific difficulties, intimacy coaching may suit you better.